When Christmas brings change: Recognising the signs of dementia

Christmas brings families together in a way that everyday life sometimes doesn’t. We celebrate traditions and enjoy time with people. But it can also be the time we notice changes in an older family member that may have been less obvious during the year. 

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As you sit down to the Christmas table or gather around the tree, you may notice an older family member seems overwhelmed. Or perhaps they are more unsteady on their feet than last year, or their short-term memory seems to be fading. 

You may wonder whether these changes are a normal part of ageing, a sign your loved one needs more support, or early signs of dementia. You might also wonder whether a move into residential aged care could be the next step. 

What is it about Christmas?

Christmas brings different routines, more noise, more visitors and extra stimulation, which older people may find challenging. When families spend longer stretches of time together in festive environments, it can bring changes in a loved one into clearer focus. 

Is it dementia?

Dementia is not one condition, but a collection of symptoms and changed behaviours caused by disorders affecting the brain. It is not considered a normal part of ageing. In healthy ageing, a person usually retains knowledge, language, life experience and abilities. People living with dementia may struggle with these things, and symptoms typically worsen over time. Read more about dementia in our earlier article. 

Is it time to consider residential aged care?

Noticing changes in your loved one doesn’t automatically mean a decision about next steps must be made straight away, but it may signal that it’s time to explore residential aged care together – especially if they’re no longer able to care for themselves as well as they once did.  

Many aged care homes offer warm, peaceful environments where residents are supported to live the life they want – with dignity, connection and 24/7 care. Read our tips for choosing the right aged care home. 

Since 1 November 2025, supported decision-making has been enshrined in the new Aged Care Act, meaning older people must be involved in decisions about their care wherever possible. Families play a key role in helping their loved one understand options, express their preferences and make choices that honour their wishes.  

BaptistCare residential aged care

If this Christmas highlights that your loved one may need more day-to-day help, our BaptistCare residential aged care homes offer a safe and dignified environment, including support for people living with dementia. We walk families through the steps involved in entering an aged care home, from assessments to moving-in day.

Our teams are trained to understand memory loss, behavioural changes and the emotional impacts of dementia. Our homes offer quiet lounges, gardens and thoughtful design to reduce confusion and support independence. We also help residents stay engaged with routines, interests and activities that bring them joy.

Find out more about what your loved one can expect when they move into a residential aged care home.

BaptistCare aged care homes

Christmas can be a season of joy and a season of clarity. If this Christmas has you wondering whether it’s time to consider an aged care home for your loved one, we’re here to help.

Visit our website to find out more about BaptistCare residential aged care homes, or call 1300 275 227 to speak with one of our friendly team members and arrange a tour of your nearest BaptistCare home.